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what i think of luv,lust n longing..lol
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Dec 18, 2006 11:23 am
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My career nose-dived many a time,and yes,there were moments of frustration..But bad marraige helped me reinvent myself..lol
I am made of sterner stuff n i knew i'll do it..yet,this is not a complaint nor a regret..My mom used to say"you dont always get what u want ,but u get what u deserve...and tht is so true regarding my work
success is a very relative term...i have done very well for myself..i'm proud of that
Money is important..it gets u respectabily in society,its not the be-all n the end-all of my existence but its a huge security..i wouldnt like to be in a situation where i am faced by a crisis n dont have the Money to tackle it..i would never go to any lenghts to get the Money..i would not compromise on my principles
I am a normal woman..n i have had my share of relationships n breakups .luckily i have not had too many either!each relationship ,however bitterly it may have ended,taught me something..they have made me a better human being ,more mature n more resilient
meeting the right person is all about timing...my first relationship happened when i was very youn,blinded by love but as you grow older u become mature n hence ur perceptions on relationships change..All my relationships are a part of me ..i couldnt single out any one but yes!the first one always stays with you..At the same time the one that hurt u the most broke your heart the most,the one tht really betrayed u also never goes out of your mind(smiles )
I have never been the impulsive one...i have always weighed the pros n cons.i never get attracted easily n certainly just for good looks lol
lets say tht i am more pragmatic today.I DONT look at luv through rose-tinted glasses any more,yes,i want luv romance n everything tht goes with it BUT i'm NOT willing to bend backwards.i'm not willing to take crap anymore .LOL
casual \bsexo?\b is a no=no for me. its really not cool..no physical contact is enjoyable if love is not involved.Contrary to the sexy image i have lol...i cant lust..physical attraction comes only when i'm absolutely in luv with him.
26 years ago i strongly believed in marraige,but today my horizons have widened. i'm not a frog in a well anymore.Now i'm more interested in my daughters wedding than mine lol...today.u cant go by set rules..you have to be friends to make a marraige work..it takes more than luv to make a marraige work..today's generation is less compromising n tends to make fewer adjustments..i hope my kids will understand what i think about marraige today lol
i firmly believe its destiny.nobody foresees a break=up or a divorce..no third person is ever responsible for a break up in a marraige.
well,friends thts me lol...i'm not what u see on iff..me sara is a responsible mom...luved by friends...great kids..n a bank balance to let me be a liesure woman
happy reading luv poo
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