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VERY INFORMATIVE
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Oct 24, 2010 11:11 am
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Is your husband or wife, boyfriend or girlfriend a compulsive/pathological liar or a sociopath?
To begin with, it may help to understand the difference between a pathological or compulsive liar and a sociopath (see, types of liars).
Ultimately, making this type of distinction may not be that useful. Because in either case, the outcome is typically the same: dealing with a compulsive or pathological liar is very difficult to do. And unfortunately, sociopaths cannot be changed (see, lovefraud).
A compulsive liar will resort to telling lies, regardless of the situation. Again, everyone lies from time to time (see, when lovers lie), but for a compulsive liar, telling lies is routine. It becomes a habit - a way of life.
Simply put, for a compulsive liar, lying becomes second nature.
Not only do compulsive liars bend the truth about issues large and small, they take comfort in it. Lying feels right to a compulsive liar. Telling the truth, on the other hand, is difficult and uncomfortable.
And like any behavior which provides comfort and an escape from discomfort (i.e., alcohol, drugs, sex), lying can become addictive and hard to stop. For the compulsive liar, lying feels safe and this fuels the desire to lie even more.
Making matters even more complicated, compulsive lying is often a symptom of a much larger personality disorder, which only makes the problem more difficult to resolve (see, narcissistic personality disorder and borderline personality disorder).
Unfortunately, compulsive lying is hard for the person involved to see, but it hurts those who are around it. Compulsive lying, if not addressed, can easily ruin a relationship (for example, see why does he need to lie).
Compulsive lying can be dealt with through counseling or therapy. But, like any addictive behavior (and/or personality disorder), getting someone to admit they have a problem with lying is the difficult part. Sadly enough, getting someone to recognize that he or she has a problem usually requires hitting rock bottom first.
KAREENA (AS I READ SOMEWHERE SO WANTED TO SHARE)
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CARELESS WHIPSER
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Oct 24, 2010 10:55 am
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Time can never mend the careless whispers of a good friend
To the heart and mind, ignorance is kind
there's no comfort in the truth
pain is all you'll find
Should've known better
I feel so unsure
as I take your hand and lead you to the dance floor
as the music dies, something in your eyes
calls to mind the silver screen
and all its sad good-byes
I'm never gonna dance again
guilty feet have got no rhythm
though it's easy to pretend
I know you're not a fool
Should've known better than to cheat a friend
and waste the chance that I've been given
so I'm never gonna dance again
the way I danced with you
Time can never mend
the careless whispers of a good friend
to the heart and mind
ignorance is kind
there's no comfort in the truth
pain is all you'll find
I'm never gonna dance again
guilty feet have got no rhythm
though it's easy to pretend
I know you're not a fool
Should've known better than to cheat a friend
and waste this chance that I've been given
so I'm never gonna dance again
the way I danced with you
Never without your love
Tonight the music seems so loud
I wish that we could lose this crowd
Maybe it's better this way
We'd hurt each other with the things we'd want to say
We could have been so good together
We could have lived this dance forever
But noone's gonna dance with me
Please stay
And I'm never gonna dance again
guilty feet have got no rhythm
though it's easy to pretend
I know you're not a fool
Should've known better than to cheat a friend
and waste the chance that I've been given
so I'm never gonna dance again
the way I danced with you
(Now that you're gone) Now that you're gone
(Now that you're gone) What I did's so wrong
that you had to leave me alone
ALL MUST BE AWARE OF THIS SONG BY GEORGE MICHAEL
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SUMMER WINE
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Oct 24, 2010 10:46 am
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Strawberries cherries and an angel's kiss in spring
My summer wine is really made from all these things
I walked in town on silver spurs that jingled too
A song that I had only sang to just a few
She saw my silver spurs and said let pass some time
And I will give to you summer wine
Oohh-oh summer wine
Strawberries cherries and an angel's kiss in spring
My summer wine is really made from all these things
Take off your silver spurs and help me pass the time
And I will give to you summer wine
Oohh-oh summer wine
My eyes grew heavy and my lips they could not speak
I tried to get up but I couldn't find my feet
She reassured me with an unfamilliar line
And then she gave to me more summer wine
Oohh-oh summer wine
Strawberries cherries and an angel's kiss in spring
My summer wine is really made from all these things
Take off your silver spurs and help me pass the time
And I will give to you summer wine
Oohh-oh summer wine
When I woke up the sun was shining in my eyes
My silver spurs were gone my head felt twice its size
She took my silver spurs a dollar and a dime
And left me cravin' for more summer wine
Oohh-oh summer wine
Strawberries cherries and an angel's kiss in spring
My summer wine is really made from all these things
Take off those silver spurs and help me pass the time
And I will give to you my summer wine
Oohh-oh summer wine
WOW SUCH A LOVELY SONG
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HMMMMMMMMMM
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Oct 21, 2010 7:39 am
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I LIKE PEOPLE LIKE U WHO LIKE OTHERS LIKE ME AND MAKE THE OTHERS LIKE ME TO LIKE YOU
READ IT AGAIN
THERE IS A WONDERFUL MEANING
NEVER TRUST THE DOUBTED AND NEVER DOUBT THE TRUSTED ONE.
GOD HAS GIVEN US 'REAL EYES'TO 'REALISE THE REAL LIES'
THINK TWICE AND ACT WISE.
WHY DO FREINDS KEEP FORWARDING MSGS. INSTEAD OF TALKING TO EACH OTHER?
THE REASON IS THAT SOMETIME WE HAVE NOTHING TO SAY BUT STILL WANT TO BE IN TOUCH.
THE SEARCH FOR HAPPINESS IS THE MAIN REASON OF UNHAPPINESS.
ACCEPT LIFE THE WAY IT COMES.
ALL THROUGH OUR LIVES , WE MAKE SO MANY FREINDS
SOME BECOME DEAR, SOME BECOME SPECIAL,
SOME WE CANT HELP FALLIN IN LOVE, SOME WE SWEAR NEVER TO SEE AGAIN
SOME CHANGE THEIR CITIES, SOME THEIR HEARTS
SOME LEAVE US
OTHERS WE LEAVE
SOME DON'T CONTACT CUZ OF THEIR EGO
SOME WE DON'T CUZ OF OUR EGO
WHATEVER THEY WERE
HOW EVER THEY WERE
HOW EVER THEY ARE
WE STILL REMEMBER, LOVE, MISS, CARE, AFFECTION ABOUT THEM CUZ OF THE PART THEY PLAYED MADE 'MEMORIES' IN OUR LIVES....
2 freinds sitting on hil top- u and i
u- if i say u to jump down, will you do it?
i- yes i will
u- why?
i- bcoz i know u will catch my hand n pul me up
u- if i don't then?
i-then I will die with the belief that my freind tried his best but couldn't save me.
FREINDSHIP IS NOT ABOUT DOING SOMETHING BUT ABOUT BELIEVIN SOMEONE.(DEDICATED TO ALL MY FREINDS)
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DON'T MISS
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Oct 18, 2010 7:43 am
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A VERY SHORT & NICE LINES SAID BY TRUE FREINDS FOR HOLDING TRUE
FREINDSHIP
.......... HURT ME WITH THE TRUTH........
BUT
........ NEVER COMFORT ME WITH A LIE.....
WONDERFUL PEOPLE ARE CAREFULLY CREATED BY GOD
WONDERFUL MOMENTS ARE AMAZINGLY PLANNED BY GOD & A
WONDERFUL FREIND LIKE YOU IS PERSONALY GIFTED BY GOD.
D WORLD IS A GARDEN IN WHICH WE CAN REMOVE WEEDS OF DOUBT AND REPLACE THEM WITH SEEDS OF HOPE.
EGO IS JUST LIKE DUST IN THE EYE WITHOUT CLEARING THE DUST, U CAN'T SEE ANYTHING CLEARLY, SO CLEAR THE EGO AND SEE THE WORLD.
BE WHO YOU ARE AND SAY WHAT YOU FEL BECAUSE THOSE WHO MIND DON'T MATTER AND THOSE WHO MATTER DON'T MIND.
BELL IS SOUNDLESS UNTIL SOMEONE RINGS IT, SONG MAKES NO SENSE UNTIL SOMEONE SINGS IT, DONT HIDER YOUR FEELINGS COZ THEY ARE NOT CALLED FEELINGS UNTIL OTHERS FEEL IT.
I MAY NOT BE SO SWEET PART OF YOUR LIFE, BECOZ I HAVE A UNIQUE CHARACTER LIKE SALT, IT'S PRESENCE IS NOT FELT, BUT IT'S ABSCENCE MAKES EVERYTHING TASTELESS.
KAREENA [/COLOR] 
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Memories are the best souvenirs.
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Oct 7, 2010 6:50 am
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You will never know true happiness,
until you have truly loved,
and you will never understand,
what pain really is,
until you have lost it.
You walk by me everyday and say hello.
Everyday you take time out to listen to me.
You talk to me, smile at me,
laugh with me, and have fun with me.
Well, I talk, smile and laugh too,
but inside I'm hurting.
Deep down it hurts to be with you
because I love you and you are only a friend.
While being in love there are two requirements:
heart breaking and healing.
Healing takes time.
I still run, I still swing open the door,
I still think, you'll be there like before.
Doesn't everybody out there
know to never come around?
Some things a heart won't listen to,
I'm still holding out for you.
He touched my heart with
a thousand pleasures and
broke it into million pieces.
To live life without you is to live life without love.
One of the hardest things
you'll ever have to do is stop loving someone
because they've stopped loving you.
Life is prison when you're in love alone.
The greatest distance on earth is not north and south,
it is when I am right in front of you
and you do not know that I love you.
Kareena
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WHAT IS LOVE????/
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Oct 6, 2010 10:04 am
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what am i getting myself into?
i settle for less,
rather than being the best,
cuz i belive i'm not good enough,
for the person i am with,
what is good enough?
i play it safe so i won't get hurt,
but it happens anyways,
i guess you can't plan it out,
like i would like,
if love was that easy,
we all would exprience it,
but love is hard,
and sometimes blind,
love should not hurt,
in any shape or form,
would you call it love?
nobody perfect,
you only get one chance,
so don't waste it,
cuz love doesn't judge,
it accepts everything about you.
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Meaning of F.R.I.E.N.D.S.H.I.P
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Sep 28, 2010 8:09 am
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"F" is for Fun............That friends share when they are together.
"R" is for Reliability....A true friend is someone that you can always rely on.
"I" is for Interest.......Someone who is genuinely interested in you, your fears, joys, and life.
"E" is for Energy.........They pick you up when you are down, and give you the energy to go on and believe in yourself.
"N" is for Nothing........Nothing is ever too much, no matter what time it is, night or day.
"D" is for Distance.......Although the miles may separate you, a true friend is never far away.
"S" is for Secrets........Your feelings and personal/private thoughts that you can only share with a friend.
"H" is for Happiness......The way I feel when we are together.
"I" is for Inseparable....Through good times and bad, tears and laughter. A friend will always be there for you jst frnds like u ..
"P" is for Perfect........The friendship that you and I share. You make normal days into special days. Turn my tears of sorrow into tears of laughter. My world is a brighter place due to the friendship and love that we share.
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ALPHABET
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Sep 28, 2010 3:28 am
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WHICH IS THE MOST DANGEROUS ALPHABET OF ALL? W COZ ALL WORRIES START WITH
'W'
WHO
WHY?
WHAT?
WHEN?
WHICH?
WHOM?
WHERE?
WAR
WINE AND FINALLY
WIFE
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Sealed with a kiss
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Sep 22, 2010 9:50 am
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Though we've got to say good-bye
For the summer
Darling, I promise you this
I'll send you all my love
Everyday in a letter
Sealed with a kiss
Yes it's gonna be cold, lonely summer
But I'll fill the emptiness
I'll send you all my dreams
Everyday in a letter
Sealed with a kiss
I'll see you in the sunlight
I'll hear your voice everywhere
I'll run to tenderly hold you
But, Darlin' you won't be there
I don't wanna say good-bye
For the summer
Knowing the love we'll miss
Let us make a pledge
To meet in September
And seal it with a kiss
Sealed with a kiss
Sealed with a kiss
Sealed with a kiss
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