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.......Oh dear, I won't preach; let me confess.....All that ever matters is your happiness! .......
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Dec 10, 2011 7:27 am
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 ..... My darling baby came to me the other day, said, " Mom I have something to say" She told me about the guy, she told me about her love for him, "Mom I've made up my mind, I want to spend my life with him".....
I realized, my baby was not a baby anymore, and eventually I felt old.... Time had flown and my baby had wanted to fly. She had wanted to fly from the nest we had built, our home was much more than what I had dreamt!....
I remember the day, when she was born, my first baby, She came in & made our house a real happy home. She was such a cute little thing, a small bundle of unlimited joy,Chubby cheeks, lovely eyes, divine smile; she was the apple of my eye..... Yesterday only she was a kid and her presence was a time to rejoice, Everything changed so fast, and I couldn't even notice......
That night I told her dad about her love, about what she said, Next day I met him and thought, my baby hadn't met him instead! He was thin, tall, handsome and well educated. He was smart, but could not look me in the eye, He said he loved her, but it sounded like a blatant lie. He talked about his interests; he talked about life, When he left, I knew my baby wouldn't be his wife!
I did talk to him; I did talk to his friends later, And then I knew it for sure; my baby deserved something much better! She wouldn't have been happy with him, and I told her that. She said, "Mom I love him and I'll marry him no matter what!" I said, "Oh darling, I have nothing against love, but he's just not the right one, you see! Oh sweetheart, he'll hurt you someday,he's so dishonest; can't you see?" She said, "Oh mom, you won't understand, I don't care what you say, n if you do not approve, I'll marry him anyway.....
Do you really want to see me cry? Do you really want to see me unhappy? Oh mom, please don't preach, I'll be alright, don't you worry about me." I said, "Oh dear, if I don't worry about you, who would? Would he? Ok fine, I won't preach, but soon enough you'll know why. Oh child, how could I ever see you unhappy? How could I ever let you cry? Remember, I would always be with you, till the day I die!" I didn't say anything and I didn't do anything, I waited for her to tell me something......
Then the other day my baby came to me and wept for the first time,n if I meet that guy ever again, I have murder on my mind. She didn't tell me what he did to her, But she learnt from her mistakes and she'll remember. She said, "Mom you did tell me, but I didn't listen; Please forgive me, I was so stubborn." I said, "Oh dear, only when you would become mother, you would be aware,
What you really mean to us, and how much we care. How it feels when a part of you leaves, How you get shattered, and how your heart cries. Oh honey, you are the only one, you mean so much to us, n we have so much to share, so much to enjoy and so much to discuss! Now you have seen the world, now you are really strong, And when you decide something, I know you wouldn't be wrong! But if you ever get confused and don't know what to do, Remember, you always have your parents standing beside you....
Oh dear, I won't preach; let me confess. All that ever matters is your happiness!
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.....Adding an Allure to .....The Indian women........Born natural Beautifully.......
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Oct 30, 2011 12:09 am
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 .....The real beauty of an Indian woman lies in the eyes of the beholder.The beauty therefore, has always been the center of attraction not only for men but for everyone.One of the main factor of the beauty of a woman lies in her navel..... A beautiful navel adds to the beauty and charm of a woman.In other words,a beautiful navel is the oomph factor for a beautiful woman. However the navel base can also suppress the beauty of a woman.Those women who have beautiful looks but have an out of shape belly with a disfigured navel are considered less beautiful than they actually are. Hence the beauty of the navel of a woman plays a vital role in the overall beauty of a woman..... Also in India, there is a great recognition of the navel.Women in India mostly wear saree below the navel.An alluring navel saree is worn at various functions by almost every Indian women of any society. Stars like Kareena Kapoor, Deepika Padukone, Priyanka Chopra,have maintained the charm of their navel and thus wear with them with panache.The pictures in navel of beautiful celebrities are also in vogue.Photo shoots and potfolios are also conducted especially to capture navel photos. Now-a-days it seems like a trend to have beautiful navel and to show it off by wearing a saree below the navel. Even the foreign female celebrities that visit India on some particular occasions are seen wearing sarees and showing their amazing navel. Men easily get carried away by a beautiful navel.One of the most attractive features of a woman according to men is her navel. A woman can wear a hot navel saree just by wearing a chiffon or a net saree.As these sarees are transparent and one can easily see the navel.The fabric of the saree has to be kept in mind and one should be careful while wearing it.As there are many ways to flaunt a navel like;style to drape the saree and the fabric to be used..... The style consists of wearing the saree below the navel i.e.5 to 6 inches below the navel and also the petticoat so worn must be tied below the navel with the saree tucked in perfectly.One can attract that area by pleating the saree tightly nad wearing a sequins belt or the style of palla can be draped in a manner such that the navel becomes the centre of attraction and the people tends to get attracted on that area. The fabric must be light and transparent which is the best way to show a hot navel.As it is the style of revealing a little bit and at the same time showing a bit of everything.net sarees are the best option and the best a woman who wants to show her navel may look for among all the other available fabrics. Therefore,a hot navel saree is the latest trend of the season and is sauce of life together with stunning sarees in various fabrics and draped in various ways.Together with stylish and trendy blouses the navel showing trend is also the rage of the time and the trend which is being set by the bollywood divas and the women who follow these trends with panache...... Deep Pink....
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Anna.... tu Gandhi hai ...... All Non Corrupt Indians Love U ..............
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Aug 27, 2011 2:01 am
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 .....A lot of people are waiting for great personalities like
'''''''Mahatma Gandhi'''''''
Martin Luther King Jr.
Swami Vivekananda
Lal Bahadur Shastri
to come back .... but they are gone,
We are it.
It is up to us.
It is up to you.
Do We need to Follow Them ??? .... Yes.... We Surely Need to ......
Bandey Main Tha Dumm .. Long Live Bapuji
''''Vande Matram''''
.....now v have him amongst our midst
...Anna ....
tu Gandhi hai...... All Non Corrupt Indians Love U ..............
was thinking of an apt title... The other that came to my mind was...
The transformation of Hazare to Bhagat Singh.... and of Anna to Gandhiji....
Anna the jawan of the Indian Army is knocking at the conscious of the Indian population... nnnn.... a shivers in the spine of the Political honchos ... even at age 74 + .....Anna may hai dum.... Vande Matram....
Long live Annaji n your mission to bury the menace of Corruption
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Ain't it wonderful to see ... Terrorism Graph has nose dived............. Navroz Mubarak............
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Aug 19, 2011 2:54 am
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 Folks the world over must have observed ..... the severity of Terrorism,notably Islamic Terrorism is showing a
h u g e
....drop ....
Drastically n Graphically....
Cause .....
The entire stock of Virgins hav been cornered by O S A M A n none left for his cronies... thus the enthusiasm to terrorize is over....
Navroj is the first day of the first month of the Zoroastrian year.
"Struggle for good against Evil With Humata (good thoughts), Hukta (good words) and Havarshta (good deeds)".....
Navroj Mubarak.. Sal Mubarak
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....Folks ... To realise the fruits of ya Big Dreams..... Rise Early....
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Aug 18, 2011 7:17 am
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 >>>>> ..... As life is a dream for the wise, a game for the fool, a comedy for the rich, a tragedy for the poor ....
So be wise n dream Big.... but rise early ...for God gives all to those who wake up early... as late wakers will face uncertainties in life,leading to chaos....
The wise should not garner all the opps for themselves but must leave some for others of a lesser God...
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... Work Hard Intelligently .......India will reach a Super Power status in the near future...
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Aug 15, 2011 7:48 am
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 Re. Work Hard Intelligently .......India will reach a Super Power status in the near future...
I think instead of dreaming of being a super power, we should act in rite Earnest to become one. There are still 270 million Indians living below the poverty line - totally unacceptable. When we achieve total poverty alleviation, complete literacy, only then should we boast about being a "super power".
The near future would possibly be the year .... 2050 looks kind of possible to me.
I don't give a damn to the concept of our India being a military superpower. I don't think we should try for that..... as scarce resources should not be frittered away in a colossus manner...
We should solve poverty, illiteracy, transportation, electricity, naxals, politics based on caste etc etc.... When we solve these, we should concentrate on leading the world in Research & Development......
Again, 2050 looks reasonably fine for all of these. Most of us should be alive ... to see the fruits of OUR hard n intelligent Labor
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Independence is passe.... The world Greets India on the Global Interdependence Day..... 15 th. Aug.
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Aug 14, 2011 6:52 am
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 India
...India is perhaps the best example of unity in diversity - different religions, language, customs and culture. There are differences in terms of tradition, lifestyle and fashion amongst the Indian people but the one change that cannot be ignored amidst all is the rising popularity of the Indo western Dresses. With Globalization, conventional ways of putting on salwar kameez and saris gave way to modern trends and styles. With greater number of Indian women from different age groups casting their vote in favor of western apparels, designers are thinking of novel ways to revamp the good old sarees or the traditional salwar kameez. The current trend in Indian fashion is Fusion wear. Western necklines, waistlines, cuts, length and fabrics are now being merged to Indian wear. This union of the east and west has fashioned some truly inimitable looks that are extremely up to date. Not only are they high on style quotient but they are extremely comfortable to wear. The Indo western dresses are also easier-to-manage and have sleeker looks quite like their Western counterparts. The Indo Western Dresses look sexier maintaining the coy look that Traditional Indian dresses provide. Necklines popular in the West are now being adapted in Indian Dresses to lend a contemporary touch. Though in the past, Indian women wore cotton blouses with full sleeves devoid of embellishments with predominance of Western influence, different styles of blouses like puffed sleeves, halter-neck, deep necks, and lycra-fitted blouses have made its way to the Indian women's wardrobe. The regular length of blouses has lessened too. A halter or strappy top over a straight salwar, large armholes, spaghetti straps Noodle straps are all western borrowings that are adapted well in Indian blouses or salwar tops. Straight cut pants has outcasted the traditional churidar. Spaghetti straps, sleeveless tops, slit pants, deeper necklines and better fitted kurtas are now the fashion rage of the season. Indo-western influences are evident in "kurta," or long "kurti," which is modern style of salwar kameez. There is a wide variety of fusion wear available in market to pick from such as crinkled crepe skirts, flowing tops over leggings, and bead work in A lined skirts or the Kurta motifs over track pants. The current empire line with broad borders in bold colors is the hottest addition in the long list of gorgeous Indo western dresses. Embroidery and Motifs is significant in Indo western dresses. Motifs of flowers, elephants, leaf, peacock and Gods are designed on shirts or denim wear. Dresses have simple thread works in silver or satin or gold chain stitches. Payal and ghungrus on shirts or crystals are now being added for the purpose of embellishments. Denims are now decorated with a dash of sequins and colored artificial pearls. Animal prints on salwar suits also give a cool western look. Floral cotton shirts and tasseled stoles, kurtis having Indian embroidery, pencil long skirts with a handkerchief cut kurta clearly reveal the rising popularity of the fusion trend. ...It's an undoubted fact that the dash of Indo-western fusion concept has spiced up the Indian wardrobe putting India at par with the international fashion scenario....
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A flustered DIL speaks to her MIL
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Aug 10, 2011 2:12 am
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 Dear Mother in Law.... Namaste... plz this veri minute Stop teaching me ... How to raise my TWO children...
I'm living with one of yours & he needs a lot of "improvement" ........
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......... The original text is in Sanskrit... ......Here is the text in Globally understood Lingo...
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Aug 2, 2011 9:35 am
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 Sandalwood when rubbed against a stone (repeatedly) produces a paste of sandalwood giving out fragrance; Only when sugar cane is crushed between stone/metal you get the sweet tasting sugarcane juice..... Gold when heated in fire and beaten several times gives out its luster for which it is known......
Similarly even when pushed into threatening situations,the noble/virtuous n the brave will never give up on their virtues. Only when someone is tested his/her virtues are known to others,therefore testing times are not bad at all-.... it brings out the best in you.......
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