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6/11/2009 8:48 am |
Trust in Frendship
. Sometimes we believe in certain people.. have expectations from them.......... They says we should not expect . its always better to maintain relationships without having much expectations ....BUT we are human .and expectations and human go together . There are so many complications in life.. and most of it is because of these expectations..Be it professional .. be it personal.. these always have some value.. Its a different topic if we are able to meet other's expectation or not.. We might not be raising upto that level.. and when we dont and see the pain in our loved ones... we feel guilty... and not go and advise.. dont have any expecations from me.. or nobody has ever had any expectation from me.. These are words of escapism... What is relationship without expectations.... Well its very easy to define what to expect from whom etc.. but very difficult to follow. When in a relationship.. be it parent child, brother sister, husband wife.. even in friendship.. .we need to know that a little bit of affection is always expected... You need to be confident that when the whole world leaves me alone... my friend is always there for me... That is what is friendship after all... The confidence in the other person, the trust which you have on that person irrespective of whether the person will really do it for you. A friend is, simply, another self. Someone you can speak to as freely as to yourself, someone who will rejoice in your happiness as much as yourself, and someone wherever you turn is at your side, never untimely, nor in your way. There's three essential features of friendship: 1. There is affection between you 2. There is honesty. 3. There is trust. What if there comes a situation you are no longer going to trust your friend... the friendship is off on a vacation.. probably that is the day, you realize, you did a mistake... They say.. parents are by chance frineds are by choice So choose your friends wisely... Choose your life wisely!!! |
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6/11/2009 8:18 pm |
Trust, as we know, is a crucial factor in any relationship. Many relationships have broken up over trust issues. Once violated, trust is very difficult to repair and rebuild, so it has to be guarded carefully and constantly nurtured. It can be compared to a plant that needs the right soil, water and temperature to flourish and attain full bloom. So too, trust requires the right conditions and environment to sustain a relationship through highs and lows. If partners trust each other in a relationship, there is no guarantee that it will continue to stay that way. You can never trust enough, nor can you take it for granted. You have to constantly build on it.
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6/11/2009 9:58 pm |
A friend is, simply, another self. Someone you can speak to as freely as to yourself, someone who will rejoice in your happiness as much as yourself, and someone wherever you turn is at your side, never untimely, nor in your way. Good insight into relationships. Expectations in a relationship are common; but should be reasonable. Good post! 
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6/12/2009 6:31 am |
Hmmmmmmmm very nice. Somebody has said that in life if u have four genuine trustworthy friends den that person sud be accomodated in Forbes rich list. Wat u say MSM??
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6/12/2009 11:02 am |
this is commonly discussed subject ..or discussing subject among us...or questioned... valued.. I also feel the same as surprises...(he might surprise u ???) that you spell it out these blog boz of some resason..... Anyway nice to see yur views on this !!! God May Bless You my silent friend!!! (is i have right to say friend? or like only MsM)
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6/15/2009 5:38 am |
Hi MsMystery  Life has taught me Never to expect. And since I learned that, I've had no disappointments  Don't expect and you will never be disappointed and feel hurt or deceived. Treat whatever positive comes out of a relationship as BONUS and negative as TRASH,to be dumped in the dustbin. Disappointment will never ever dare come near you. A wonderful POST nevertheless. GOD BLESS everyone with the treasure of 'REAL' FRIENDS.
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6/16/2009 4:31 am |
every things comes after a great sacrefice FRIENDSHIP IS A TREMENDEOUS TEST OF PATIENCE AND CO-OPEARATION AND ATTETUDE. THE JEAST OF IT IS FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE BOTH CAN BE FELT RATHER CAN BE ENJOYED BY SACREFICEING OWN ALL THE WANTS AND NEEDS FOR BUILDING THE LIFE PATH FOR HIS/HER FRIEND.
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6/29/2009 2:26 am |
MYSTERY NICE BLOG & NICE VICHAR. SINCE WE ALL R HUMAN BEING & ITS NATURE OF ALL HUMAN BEING FOR SOME CONSIDERATIONS. U PICK ANY RELATION EXCEPT THE RELATION OF MOTHER & KIDS. IN FRIENDSHIP ALSO THERE IS CONSIDERATION. bUT YES BUT THE TRUE FRIEND IS THOSE WHO ARE COMING TO YOU WHEN U NEED MOST. SOME TIME THE FAMILY MEMBERS ARE ALSO LEAVING YOU IN DIFFICULT SITUATIONS BUT A TRUE FRIEND WILL ALWYAS HELP YOU & SHOWING YOU THE RIGHT PATH. THAT SI MY BELEIVE. NICE BLOG IN ANY WAYS. KEEP ON WRITING.. TKS KESHAV
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